Abuser Warning

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Rosa Martinez, currently tumblr user melodytakt, currently has several posts circulating in which she is looking for a place to stay. I would advise you not to open your home to her, as she has been manipulative to her partners and to multiple other people in her life, and this was the reason that her previous roommates finally forced her to move out.  She has extorted people for money, attention, and for sexual favors via emotional blackmail and has pressured many others into having sexual conversations with her against their consent, including myself, who was a close friend of hers for a while.

I’m keeping my identity anonymous because I do not want to be sought out by her or subjected to any more of her manipulation tactics but I hope you will still be able to take my word for it, because I do not want anyone to invite her into their home without fair warning about the kind of person she is.  This is incredibly difficult because she is in a terrible situation right now, but I don’t want anyone to unknowingly put themselves in a situation to be victimized by her.


elvendork:

it’s worth noting that ed/#boypart and sol/#inksplotched/#sarellasand stalked and/or harassed marc/slugzone and i for most of last year and and told mutual friends lies about the situations of our respective breakups to make themselves appear sympathetic and claimed marc was lying and overreacting about his #sexual abuse, which he did not talk about publicly ??? at all?? sol claimed i was the abuser in my relationship with them and many many people were just so ~uncertain~ and convinced that the situation was just bad breakups that they were reluctant (also with sols brand of permeating emotional manipulation) to publicly side with either marc or i for fear of being socially ruined by sol and treated to the same constant slander and hatred that both marc and i were. 

throw abusers in the trash just really throw these people under the bus. i feel comfortable discussing my situation publicly now and i do not feel like sol is a threat to me personally but there are many people who have messaged me with their experiences and still wish to remain anonymous for fear of sols influence over their lives. please do not put people through the isolation you cause when you side with an abuser! please! do not! 


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boypart is sexually abusive

slugzone:

slugzone:

slugzone:

i am very very panicked about posting this at all but i dont know what to do. i dont have screenshots to “prove” any of this as it happened about a year ago im sorry i can just give you a brief account of what happened im just going to keep this short

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you know what nevermind, i originally asked for this post not to be reblogged but whatever go ahead.

please reblog this actually because ed is editing conversations that took place between us on skype and in tumblr ask messages and is omitting parkts where im telling him im scared and dont want to talk to him and is doing everything he can to evade being called an abuser and has made a lot of posts about how consent is a fuzzy area and how hard it is for him jesus christ i told him no. im so stressed out i dont know what to do i need people to know what hes doing i dont want to see this happen to anyone else


it’s worth noting that ed/#boypart and sol/#inksplotched/#sarellasand stalked and/or harassed marc/slugzone and i for most of last year and and told mutual friends lies about the situations of our respective breakups to make themselves appear sympathetic and claimed marc was lying and overreacting about his #sexual abuse, which he did not talk about publicly ??? at all?? sol claimed i was the abuser in my relationship with them and many many people were just so ~uncertain~ and convinced that the situation was just bad breakups that they were reluctant (also with sols brand of permeating emotional manipulation) to publicly side with either marc or i for fear of being socially ruined by sol and treated to the same constant slander and hatred that both marc and i were. 

throw abusers in the trash just really throw these people under the bus. i feel comfortable discussing my situation publicly now and i do not feel like sol is a threat to me personally but there are many people who have messaged me with their experiences and still wish to remain anonymous for fear of sols influence over their lives. please do not put people through the isolation you cause when you side with an abuser! please! do not! 


boypart is sexually abusive

slugzone:

slugzone:

slugzone:

i am very very panicked about posting this at all but i dont know what to do. i dont have screenshots to “prove” any of this as it happened about a year ago im sorry i can just give you a brief account of what happened im just going to keep this short

Read More

you know what nevermind, i originally asked for this post not to be reblogged but whatever go ahead.

please reblog this actually because ed is editing conversations that took place between us on skype and in tumblr ask messages and is omitting parkts where im telling him im scared and dont want to talk to him and is doing everything he can to evade being called an abuser and has made a lot of posts about how consent is a fuzzy area and how hard it is for him jesus christ i told him no. im so stressed out i dont know what to do i need people to know what hes doing i dont want to see this happen to anyone else


pandering for shelter/suggestions

leviathanalogy:

ok people i made posts at facebook and the transhousingnetwork tumblr but im wondering if you could maybe give me advice or signal boost this? i can’t live with my abusive mother. for those not in the know, i am a teenage pangender, neuroatypical/disabled/mentally ill chicano kid.i am not sure what to do! i am in fresno, california. i have my phone and i do have a facebook/emails as a way of contacting alternatively. i also have a cat. i would appreciate a message if you can or if you have any words about this. 


boypart is sexually abusive

slugzone:

slugzone:

slugzone:

i am very very panicked about posting this at all but i dont know what to do. i dont have screenshots to “prove” any of this as it happened about a year ago im sorry i can just give you a brief account of what happened im just going to keep this short

Read More

you know what nevermind, i originally asked for this post not to be reblogged but whatever go ahead.

please reblog this actually because ed is editing conversations that took place between us on skype and in tumblr ask messages and is omitting parkts where im telling him im scared and dont want to talk to him and is doing everything he can to evade being called an abuser and has made a lot of posts about how consent is a fuzzy area and how hard it is for him jesus christ i told him no. im so stressed out i dont know what to do i need people to know what hes doing i dont want to see this happen to anyone else


hermit-queen-persephone:

idiot-legs:

do not support your friends who turn out to be rapists.
do not doubt your friends who have been raped.

unfriend the rapists.
protect the abused.

I can’t stress how important this is.

If you say “it was probably a mistake/misunderstanding.” you are siding with their rapist. If you stay friends with their rapist, you have abandoned them.

Just know that.


I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU’RE DOING STOP AND READ THIS

lookintothemind:

Ok Dr. Phil’s wife, Robin, (yes groan, but listen up) has this new app out (iPhone and Android) that’s for people in abusive relationships. It’s called Aspire News and it’s disguised as a regular news app, but when you go to the “Help” section of the app, it leads you to domestic violence resources and also has a “Go Button” that when you press it, if you’re in a compromising situation, alerts local authorities as well as local shelters and starts recording everything that is going on.

Now, if you’re looking up resources on the app and your abuser is near, simply press the X button and it brings you to a random news page. Same goes for the actual foundation site.

ITS COMPLETELY FREE
Site

Apps


SPREAD THIS, DONT JUST “LIKE IT”


Art School Ruined My Life

drvalkyrie:

cancerously:

adiostoreadumb:

thepattywagon:

wannabeanimator:

Read this.

please read this it’s so important i am so angry

I believe this story 100%, because I had a similar experience at RISD.

I went to RISD’s pre college program in the summer of 2012. I was doing fine, up until a point where I got pretty stressed. I was told to go to the health offices to talk to someone one day because I was having a mild panic attack. I went to the health services offices and at first they were nice. They said that I was fine and that everything would be ok. They asked me if I would like to be alone and I said no, because I was having a mild panic attack and I wanted people to be with me. This is when they started acting weird. One of the nurses left and was on the phone for a very long time. After about 20 minutes, she came back and said an ambulance was on it’s way and I had to go to the hospital.

I was so confused. Why the heck did I have to go to the hospital? Surely that would only freak me out more! I verbally resisted, and they said they were prepared to use physical force. That’s when I got really scared. I agreed, and when the ambulance came, I walked outside to meet it without resistance. I was grabbed by two paramedics and put on a stretcher. I was then STRAPPED DOWN to said stretcher. My entire body was velcroed down to the stretcher. Don’t believe me? I snagged a picture when no one was paying attention.

After that I was taken to the hospital. While in the ambulance, I was forced to give a small amount of blood for some reason. Once we got to the hospital I was NOT ALLOWED to get up from the stretcher. They told me I was not allowed to got off and these straps remained on until I was taken to a room. Once in the room, ALL of my belongings were taken from me. Phone, wallet, keys, even a doodle folded up in my pocket. I was then given clothes to change into and I was refused privacy while I did so. A nurse was ALWAYS present.

After I got changed they sent people in to take my vitals, etc. Then they sent I psychologist in. She asked me if I knew what was happening and I said I had no idea and I was scared. She said “you’re here because you tried to kill yourself and the school was worried you were a danger to yourself and you would also possibly hurt someone.”

Excuse me? I had a MILD PANIC ATTACK and this is what RISD told the hospital.

After about 30 minutes of talking and showing her that I had absolutely no lacerations (they told them I was slitting my wrists), they said “Then why are you here? You don’t need to be here.”

Overall, I was in the ER for 2 hours. I was released and then went straight to the offices. Since I had taken that picture, AND had a note from the hospital saying I didn’t need to go and was fine, I got a formal apology from the program. However, they NEVER paid the bills and I had to pay both the hospital and ambulance bills.

Moral of the story? FUCK YOU, RISD.

holy shit stella. re-reblogging for new info

This is why you should go to Montserrat College of Art. It’s RISD’s cheaper cousin that’s a hell of a lot nicer and smaller.








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